Sense of Urgency

I don't know how you've been able to deal with the past 20 days. I had never wanted to create such angst and uncertainty for you. I was careful not to say anything before your trip to Toas and had intended to only tell you if your current dating didn't feel like the right fit for you. I get that it is new and it's easy to doubt a new relationship until it has proved out over time. 

Just because I want to spend my life with you and grow old with you doesn't mean you want that too.  I never thought I would want to re-marry, but I would be so happy and proud and grateful to be your husband, but that doesn't mean you would want that.   Just because you feel like my soulmate to me doesn't mean I feel like that to you. But if our relationship does feel like a solid bastion of super lovingness, and you would enjoy having me as your parenting partner, then I want to move quick to make that happen... I'm concerned that if we don't have children now, it likely won't happen in two years when you break up with someone else.